The day your phone stops buzzing

Shuang-Min Chang
2 min readNov 10, 2023

(Written on 23 Oct 2023)

You have colleagues and business partners who admire and trust and count on your ability to work and deliver.

You have a social circle where you share and exchange industry inside news, work place anecdotes, mutual complains of work and life, celebrate birthdays and promotions.

Your phone never stops buzzing, 24–7 and your business trips has been scheduled to eternity.

You are busy, important, needed and capable.

Everyone calls out for you if something is up, especially something needs fixing.

You feel fulfilled, successful most of the time.

Your deepest fear is that one random Saturday afternoon on which the phone stops buzzing. Somehow, suddenly no one needs you and your attention anymore. Somehow, it seems everyone sorts out their tasks and life for once. And you, you sit on a chair, getting expensive mani and pedi, while absent-mindedly chatting with the manicurist, you feel utterly left alone.

You tell yourselves this story. Loneliness is what extraordinary people bear. Loneliness is what you have to live with if to succeed beyond average in speed, in position and in package and more.

You laugh, smile and do small and big talks like you live for them.

The loneliness mustn’t be seem. You warn yourself. Such weakness. True is that you couldn’t bare to witness that moment of vulnerability of yours; that at the moment you need people the most, you couldn’t bring yourself to find anyone.

😔Does your career pilot your life to a point that you give your weekend, holidays and off hours up?

😔Do you trade in many other things you once dreamed of for your career and now you are in too deep to get out?

So, you try to force and convince yourself to accept the loneliness which frightens you?

🧡Do you want to re-claim other parts of your life?

🧡Do you want a healthy professional and personal boundary and still to be successful?

🧡Do you want to change your relationship with loneliness?

Maybe the voice in you is subtle but a resounding YES,

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Shuang-Min Chang

Life transformer & Intuitive healer. I am love. I am light and I am the manifestation of divinity. I surf and serve and am open to be everything life is.